Dealing with criticism can be a seriously tricky business as a writer. After all, the words we put on paper are us. They're our thoughts, our hearts, our words, our souls. Criticism of your words can feel like criticism of your very person.
This, in fact, is one of the reasons many writers get stuck.
We don’t want to take risks, or--if we do--we don’t want to show anyone those risks. When
we do share our work, if it’s not
met with unabashed aplomb, we often react with either severe pain (retreating
and licking our wounds, kicking ourselves and vowing never to write again) or
anger (a harrumph and a growl, a vow that your reader is uncultured swine and
just doesn’t understand your genius).
Both reactions, it might be noted, are rooted in fear. Fear
that we’re not good enough. Fear that we don’t measure up.

